Help? I never thought I would say that word. To me, asking for help was the kiss of death. Weakness. A vulnerability. Because I grew up needing to get through very hard things on my own, I subconsciously felt that to keep myself safe and get myself through hard things, I just had to buck up and get through. I truly believed that A) There would be no one there to help me and B) Showing vulnerability could get me hurt. Believing that, no way was asking for help gonna happen! Now I’ve grown to realize this thinking is wrong. No judgement here, you may be like me and not have family to count on or you may not have a lot of helpful friends. Maybe you feel like I did. That doesn’t mean asking for help is wrong as a matter of fact that’s not even the type of help I’m talking about. If you want to do things you have never done before and conquer big fears you have to “look up” and ask for help from those who can really help you and usually they are people that are outside of your circle. Reaching out for help is not only a powerful thing to do it is a necessary thing to do. Ever notice that power athletes, business titans, and high achieving celebrities do it? They seek help because it works.
I offer one on one coaching so if you are ready to invest in yourself in that way and want to move forward with me you can reach out to me here. Of course there are other ways to do this too. Sign up for a class or course like this one by someone else you would like mentorship from. Follow your mentors on social media or YouTube to get access to help. Honestly, nothing beats the direct help from a coach or taking a course, but if finances are an issue and you are motivated you can still get great things from other sources. The point is to get the help you need. You’ve got this!
You will become like the 5 people you spend the most time with. *And I don’t mean just in person… 😉
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